In this lesson, we will cover reflexive pronouns and verbs in Italian.
A verb is considered reflexive if the subject and the object of the verb are the same. This means that the subject is doing the action to itself, not to something or someone else. For instance, “I wash myself” is reflexive, while “I wash my car” is not reflexive.
Some verbs in Italian are commonly used in the reflexive form. Let us take one example that we are familiar with. The verb “chiamare” means “to call,” e.g., “mia madre, mi chiama ogni venerdì” (My mom calls me every Friday).
However, the reflexive form of the verb “chiamarsi,” which literally means “to call oneself,” is used to express one’s name. For instance, “Mi chiamo Carlo” means “My name is Carlo,” which is literally “I call myself Carlo.” A reflexive verb in formed by replacing the final “-e” in the infinitive with “-si,” often translated as “oneself.”
Conjugation
There are many verbs in Italian that have reflexive forms. We will discuss some examples; however, let us first learn how to conjugate reflexive verbs.
Object Personal Pron. | e.g., chiamarsi | |
io | mi | chiamo |
tu | ti | chiami |
lui/lei | si | chiama |
noi | ci | chiamiamo |
voi | vi | chiamate |
loro | si | chiamano |
As shown in the table, we add the object personal pronoun before the verb. Note that the subject and object personal pronouns are of the same gender and number because the subject and the object are essentially the same.
Examples
Remember that when the verb is used in reflexive form, the infinitive ends in “si,” e.g., “chiamarsi.” Here are more examples of reflexive verbs.
alzarsi | to get up | annoiarsi | to get bored |
arrabbiarsi (con) | to get mad (at) | distrarsi | to distract oneself |
divertirsi | to have fun | farsi la doccia | to take a shower |
farsi male | to hurt oneself | fermarsi | to stop |
innamorarsi | to fall in love | lavarsi | to wash oneself |
occuparsi | to take care of oneself | mettersi | to put on |
pettinarsi | to comb one’s hair | perdersi | to get lost |
prepararsi | to get ready | preoccuparsi | to worry |
pulirsi | to clean oneself | radersi farsi la barba | to shave |
ricordarsi | to remember | rallegrarsi | to rejoice |
sbrigarsi | to hurry | riprendersi | to recover |
sedersi | to sit down | sentirsi | to feel |
slogarsi | to twist or sprain | spogliarsi | to undress oneself |
stancarsi | to get tired | svegliarsi | to wake up |
ubriacarsi | to get drunk | vestirsi | to get dressed |
Let us look at some examples of reflexive pronouns and verbs in Italian in context:
Mi annoio velocemente a casa. | I get bored fast at home. |
Lei si sveglia sempre presto. | She always wakes up early. |
Ci divertiamo molto insieme. | We have a lot of fun together. |
Mi rado due volte a settimana. | I shave twice a week. |
One can add the reflexive pronoun to verbs that are not usually reflexive to make them reflexive, for example:
parlarsi | to speak to each other | vedersi | to see each other |
capirsi | to understand each other | visitarsi | to visit each other |
comprarsi | to buy oneself something | ascoltarsi | to listen to oneself |
Some verbs are used only in reflexive form, such as “suicidarsi” (to commit suicide).
Change of Meaning in Reflexive Form
Some verbs change their meaning when they are used in reflexive form, for example:
annoiare | to bore | annoiarsi | to get bored |
coricare | to lay down | coricarsi | to lie down or go to bed |
sposare | to join in marriage | sposarsi | to get married |
addormentare | to put to sleep | addormentarsi | to fall asleep |
Conjugation in Compound Tenses
Finally, keep in mind that all reflexive verbs use the auxiliary “essere” when conjugated in the present perfect tense, regardless of the auxiliary used by the non-reflexive form of the verb. For example:
Ieri sera mi sono annoiato. | I got bored last night. |
Lei si è svegliata presto oggi. | She woke up early today. |
Ieri ci siamo divertiti molto. | We had a lot of fun yesterday. |
Mi sono rasato la scorsa settimana. | I shaved last week. |
Si sono visti per caso. | They saw each other by accident. |
Remember that when “essere,” is used as an auxiliary, the past participle takes the treatment of an adjective and must agree in gender and number with the subject.
Next: Expressions Using “Avere” & “Fare”
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